State of Porosity

Yan Yan! Whee Meiji snacks rawks okay :d

The cute biscuits with different names of creatures ! Very cute !

     I am munching on Japanese Plum snack given to me from Billy boy's mum during CNY and Yan Yan Snack! I took a jog at exactly 6.58pm today and stop only after I ran to the Wangsa Walk Mall and back to my house. After 3 times of to and fro, I was sweating and feeling incredibly relieved. I felt like weights were lift from my dimmed spirit. I decided to take a walk and take a good look at my nosy neighbourhood. When I decided to sit on the big round swing, ghastly words that hurt and the past nightmares came back profusely refusing to leave me alone.Songs after songs blasting in my ear with sound waves threatening to penetrate my ear drum, thoughts after thoughts that is sabotaging my brain cells, cries and smiles on the thought of memories we had......

 

only to discover..

That it is NOT important to think parallel to our partners in all matters, ( as my boyfriend say it, he used the word "parallel" hehe! ) we need not force or make or convince our partner to agree upon our point of view or opinion. Unless what he or she is doing is an obvious fault or putting one self in constant danger. ) People, stop telling your boyfriend or girlfriend what he or she should do because we are all individuals with slight different developed brain, and with different bring ups, everyone has a unique way or understanding over certain matter. Respect their opinions, respect their point of views, the couple that can standby each other even when they do not agree on most of the things most of the time will last. 

Every time we fall in love, we expect we command we advice with the expectation of our partner listen to our advice and do accordingly, and when our partner does not, we get upset, we fight, we argue and preserve our reason and standby our point of views refusing to give in.. And when these arguments happen profusely, it might does damage to the relationship. That is when both party starting to doubt the compatibility, the understandings. Then the love became anger and hurt. Sounded familiar?

I learned all these from an old book. "P.S I Love You". It taught me how ridiculous our fights are and hoe precious is it to spend time with someone you love who loves you back. Priceless.

P.S. I Love You by Cecelia Ahern.

                            Do not regret when he or she is gone! Love is Life. Live Life :) Cheerios!